Cancel your errands.

If you could see me I would be waving my arms up in the air. If you could hear my voice, it would be loud. This message today I want you to hear loud and clear. You are afraid of life.  I am afraid of life. We are afraid of life.  We are fearful of being out there. We are terrified of adventures.  We want our day to match our day before. No surprises. No unexpected things happening. Just a good…

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You are special. You are special.

You are perfect. So very perfect. You have such beauty inside of you. How do I know? I know because you have been through so much. When I look at myself in the mirror I see the depths that I have travelled the losses that I experienced. I remember falling down on my knees, and staying there for so long.  I remember getting back up and looking as if I had gone to battle the night before, but I was…

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Break up. Its OK.

You have been friends forever. They have known your kids since they were babies. They have grown up with you! But all of a sudden history is not enough to keep the friendship going. Memories are not enough to sustain the connection. You have changed. Your life experiences are vastly different to your friend’s. They don’t get you. They have no clue what you go through every day. You get into silly…

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Give up. Today. For real.

  You have tried everything. You have walked every path. Said every word you had to say. Tried every angle. Pushed yourself to the limits. You have done it all. And it did not work out. Now you are ready to just give up. You want to stop trying. Working so hard. Knocking on every door. I understand.   I hear you. You are tired. Rejected. Alone. So I will ask you something I have never…

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Your Hiding Place

During my work with thousands of people I discovered a hiding place. Yes I did. This hiding place is situated right outside of the life we must leave behind after loss. We go there thinking it’s the new life. We go there to wait, wait to feel better. After all… you have been told that time is the only healer. And you listened. You did as you were told. You went there to wait. To wait so time…

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Guest blog: The gift of loss by Brian Scrone

Our world is made up of contrast and one of the harshest realities of life is the gift of Gain and its unwelcome counterpart, Loss!!! As I grow and watch the world move around me, I realize more and more that nothing is permanent (with the exception of true Love). Everything, including life, is borrowed; and only our perception of time, and what is considered to be “normal” for us, is what…

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