“The intention should not be to go and look for love after loss, but to seek to bring yourself back to life.”

– Christina Rasmussen

It’s all on YOU.

The truth about starting over is that it doesn’t just happen on its own. Your next chapter, your Second Firsts won’t just show up at your door with a big smile. The truth is, it’s all on YOU. Even though I believe in my work of life re-entry as I have been able to help many people mend their broken hearts it is not because of me that they heal. It is because of the actions and work they did…

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Press Play..AGAIN.

When it comes to grief, it doesn’t matter where you are from, or what color your skin is.   It doesn’t matter how old you are, how many lovers you had, or how many mistakes you think you made.   I don’t care about your religion choice.   I don’t care that you have no money.   I don’t care that you are not popular.   What I care about is, that you wake up every morning…

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One Magical Day

November 10th was a date I had been preparing for a whole year. But to be honest with you, it was a date I was petrified of. Paralyzing fear has knocked on my door every day since the conception of my very first live event. So much so that I was worried that I would lose my voice, that my body would crumble and all these wonderful souls would have travelled from far away for nothing. I had…

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Grief’s Superpower

I noticed grief’s superpower when I found myself taking action that would normally scare me. I found myself speaking the truth more and more. I heard me say things to people I never would before my loss. That superpower was almost like a brand new engine that lived within me. But the engine did not show its face while the grief was deep and dark. It started to rev up when I begun to plug back in…

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A different kind of Time Travel

When something doesn't make any sense. When something happens that we didn't expect, we keep asking why it happened to us. Why now? It is almost like we are trying to peak into the future, where we are not supposed to be. It is like we are trying to open a package that doesn't have our name on it yet. We are not supposed to know why something happened. We are not supposed to see what…

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The manual gear of self love.

Ah we destroy ourselves after loss. We destroy the body, we neglect our homes..we procrastinate when it comes to living again. Dare I say, there is some hate towards love? Dare I say this? Dare I admit it? Admit that after loss, the first thing that comes up is not life, it is not love and it is not passion. It is merely surviving, it is merely loving ourselves in any way or form. We abandon the…

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Change is lonely.

Life re-entry can be a lonely experience. Transformation into the person you want to be will require a different kind of loss. Loss of relationships. Loss of connections you used to have. Loss of many bridges that connected you to the life you left behind. It will almost feel like you are speaking in an another language. And that is when you will feel it. The loneliness of life re-entry.…

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Outer space. Inner Grief.

I always wanted to travel to space. Just to look at the earth from afar. I have imagined this moment so many times. I would see myself look from the window and shed tears of pure awe. I always felt that the Earth had one heartbeat, and just one soul. From space we look like we are all wrapped up in one big beautiful ball. No egos, no politics, no past or future. If we only knew not how small we…

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Believe in fairytales, in the big dark forest.

I believe in fairytales even in the darkest forests. Call me a dreamer. Call me an optimist. Call me anything you need, but the truth is, there is a way out of the darkness.               Guides, friends, loving strangers, and angels walked by my side all the way out. I discovered truths about grief and life I was never told about. I met people who have…

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The Captain’s hat bares your name

No matter the tragedy that is in front of you. 
Let the fairytale world whisper to your ear little things of life. No matter the dreams that were destroyed. Look up and see the beautiful blue skies fill your world. No matter the pain you feel in your heart. Let the ache you have for living, be felt. I want you to feel this hand on your back, gently pushing you forward. With the force of life.…

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