Secondary Losses


I knew all about secondary grief long before I knew what to call it. Within a matter of weeks following my primary loss – the death of my wife – the secondary losses started accumulating. I didn’t see them coming. Didn’t know to expect them. I was a frog in a boiling pot, oblivious to the violent…

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What Is Your Big Decision After Loss?


There is so much loss in making big decisions. Most of them include saying goodbye to something you have done for a long time. An experience your brain is used to having. A way of life you have known. An expression of self. Making a big decision requires you to feel loss. And this is why we…

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The Silver Lining


“I looked right into your eyes last night.  I guess I should say that I stole a look. I wanted to see what your eyes were saying.  I could see joy in them. I could see genuine love in your smile. I looked. I wanted to see hope...and I did.  I'm sending a prayer to your heart right now. Thank you…

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I Want More Time


I want more time...time with my husband that passed away almost 3 years ago, time with my mom who recently passed away, time with my dad, time with my in-laws, time with my girls, time with family and friends.  I have so many regrets at times that I can barely breathe. I know it is the devil…

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Secondary Losses


I knew all about secondary grief long before I knew what to call it. Within a matter of weeks following my primary loss – the death of my wife – the secondary losses started accumulating. I didn’t see them coming. Didn’t know to expect them. I was a frog in a boiling pot, oblivious to the violent…

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What Is Your Big Decision After Loss?


There is so much loss in making big decisions. Most of them include saying goodbye to something you have done for a long time. An experience your brain is used to having. A way of life you have known. An expression of self. Making a big decision requires you to feel loss. And this is why we…

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The Silver Lining


“I looked right into your eyes last night.  I guess I should say that I stole a look. I wanted to see what your eyes were saying.  I could see joy in them. I could see genuine love in your smile. I looked. I wanted to see hope...and I did.  I'm sending a prayer to your heart right now. Thank you…

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I Want More Time


I want more time...time with my husband that passed away almost 3 years ago, time with my mom who recently passed away, time with my dad, time with my in-laws, time with my girls, time with family and friends.  I have so many regrets at times that I can barely breathe. I know it is the devil…

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